:fire: :fire: **Not here for quick scenes, pen pals, or long-distance power trips. If you’re real, local, age-appropriate(ish), and ready for more, read on.** :fire: :fire:
In my everyday life, I’m the one in charge. I lead and direct people, manage chaos, and take care of everyone else’s needs. But when the door closes and the lights glow red, I want to be undone, tied up tight, pushed around, and owned without mercy. Under the sheets I don’t want soft suggestions or sweet talk. I want a man whose voice drips authority and whose grip burns into my skin, reminding me exactly who I belong to. Someone grounded, commanding, and emotionally present, strong enough to hold the weight of me but rough enough to leave a hand free to spank my ass when I get mouthy. Which I likely will. (Sorry, not sorry…yet). :speak_no_evil:
I’m soft. Curvy. Service-driven. Dripping with warmth and sexual appetite. Explicitly telling and showing me _exactly_ how I can be useful to you is a fast-track to getting me worked up. And when the connection is deep and the control is real, I crave even more intensity. Free use, an impactful swat or pinch that lights up every inch of my skin, and being used hard while I’m praised for being your good little whore… or punished for being your bad one. I like being pushed to the edge. I like being messy. But I also like knowing that after you ruin me, you’ll hold me while I catch my breath. I want to know that when I give you everything of me, you won’t disappear.
My mind frequently wanders to fantasies of being owned so completely that handing over the key to my apartment toes the line between safety and consequence. I want you to know when to show up without asking, how to slip in quietly while I sleep, and that it’s fair game to take what’s rightfully yours when you want and need it. I’m searching for the rare breed who doesn’t ask permission but takes what he wants with raw power. Someone who’ll pull me down hard, talk dirty to remind me I’m his plaything, and push me beyond the limits I thought I had, always respecting the delicate line between desire and real damage. I want that level of surrender with someone who sees me, holds me, and never forgets there’s a human being behind the filthy mind and mouth that longs to be objectified. And I need to be able to trust that you will never cross that line into harm.
I’ve done the “good girl” thing and have been the fantasy and the perfect submissive. I’ve been promised devotion only to be ghosted after the high wore off. I’m no weekend kink dispensary or dirty secret. I’m a whole woman with a full, normal and mostly well-functioning life who also happens to get incredibly turned on by the idea of being used like a filthy toy by someone who actually gives a damn.
Outside the bedroom, I’m ambitious, independent, and probably doing too much…so naturally, once in a while, I could really use a man who orders me to lie down, spread my legs, and behave. I sometimes unintentionally test, intentionally tease, and check to see if you’ll rise to meet me where I’m at… and I know the right partner will. He’ll challenge me, cherish me, and claim me without ever letting me forget who’s really in charge.
Because I’m primarily after a serious, committed and monogamous long-term relationship, I connect best with local, emotionally available, dominant men close to my age (give or take about 8 years). If you want casual play, no strings, or quick scenes, I’m not your match. But if you lead with strength, stay with care, and want to build something real, let’s talk.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Degradee
100% Rope ***
96% Submissive
92% Voyeur
91% Exhibitionist
83% Masochist
75% Pet
73% Experimentalist
66% Brat
53% Slave
22% Non-monogamist
20% Rigger
19% Primal (Prey)
18% Vanilla
12% Master/Mistress
12% Sadist
10% Dominant
9% Owner
7% Switch
6% Brat tamer
4% Daddy/Mommy
2% Primal (Hunter)
2% Degrader
0% Ageplayer
0% Little